When women stumble across my website, ask me what I do for a living, or hear about my work, I experience many different responses and reactions. The majority of what I experience is women sincerely wanting to do a boudoir session, then quickly shifting the thought, and creating reasons as to why they need to wait to book a shoot or completely throw away the idea.
Reasons such as, “I need to lose 10 pounds”, “When I find a boyfriend”, “My boyfriend is going to propose soon, I’ll wait and give it to him as a present”, or one of the most common, “I could NEVER do that”.
I understand that it is incredibly scary to picture and think of yourself half naked and exposed in front of a camera, so I respect those who need time. If you find yourself creating any reason to wait, I suggest when you are in that moment of “I would love to do this”, that is the time when you need to book, before your mind filters out all of the reasons why you shouldn’t. Once you’ve booked, you can take all the time that you need to prepare yourself.
It is one of those once (or maybe even twice) in a life time experiences where you just need to jump into that ice cold water of boudoir. Once you’ve done it, it is never what you thought it would be, and it could even change your life. Not only will you be able to look at fabulous and sexy pictures of yourself 30 years down the road, I guarantee you’ll leave my studio with more than just pretty pictures.